What kills a marriage quicker: A physical affair or an emotional one?

Hello "Devotee" followers, supporters & fans!!!  How is everyone?  It took me awhile but I came across a very good article on the subject of infidelity!  In it writer Nita ask what really kills a marriage quicker?  A physical affair or an emotional affair?

Now I know some of you might be saying physical!!!  A spouse has crossed that line once they have engage in sexual activity with someone other then their husband or wife.   But the rest of you might be saying an emotional affair leads to a physical one!  Is that true?  What about affairs that are strictly physical?  Are those lovers strictly gaining what they don't get at home from their wives and husbands in the bedroom????  Click on the article below & decide for yourself.  

Also, enjoy these stills form the film "The Testimony of a Devotee" starring Jewel Redhead.  ENJOY & THANKS FOR FOLLOWING!

                                
                                http://nitawriter.wordpress.com/2007/09/25/what-kills-a-marriage/

Is your partner cheating?

Hey "Devotee" Fans!!! How are all of you? Question, do you know if your partner is cheating?  Click on the link below and find out: http://www.ktre.com/Global/story.asp?S=12502665

Also, enjoy these production stills I have prepared of the first day of shooting my film "The Testimony of a Devotee".  It was exciting, hard work but we pulled it off!!!!  ENJOY & THANK FOR FOLLOWING!!

Local Doctor Says Lack of Committment and Loyalty to Blame for Cheating

Hey again "Devotee" fans!!!  Is the notion of commitment between married couples failing?  What drives individuals to devote themselves to their wives and husbands????  How do you keep that spark in a marriage in this day in age?  We all know communication is key in any relationship, but should couples seek out other resources like prayer?  Or speaking to a counselor or trusted pastor?

Checkout the link below with NBC news reporter Tina Terry as she reports how one doctor explains how cheating is the last resort when couples fail to communicate, trust & respect each other.  Link features an article and news report - CHECK IT OUT!!

Here's is another still from my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" starring Jewel Redhead that premiered this pass March - ENJOY & THANKS FOR FOLLOWING!!!

http://www.nbcaugusta.com/news/local/94516839.html

The Science of a Happy Marriage

Hey "Devotee" Fans!!!  I came across another interesting article today!  In it author Tara Parker Pope explains how married men and women can stay committed while others cheat.  In our brain lies a chemical called vasopressin that it's known as a "bonding hormone". 


Continue reading to find out how researchers conducted studies on real couples. . .you're gonna be SHOCKED by their findings!!  


Also, here's more stills from my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" for you to enjoy - THANKS FOR FOLLOWING!!
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/10/tracking-the-science-of-commitment/

                              For Better: The Science of a Good Marriage

Infidelity, Marriage, Commitment in your Genes?

Hello "Devotee" Fans!!!  Checkout this very interesting article that explains how infidelity, marriage & commitment are in our genes!  That's right - YOU AND ME!  After seeing so many boring articles about Tiger Woods & Sandra Bullock - it's good to read something that speaks about us as a whole on an very controversial issue.  Read and leave your comments!

Also, enjoy this still from my film "The Testimony of a Devotee".  The lovely ladies from my cast (Jewel, Redhead, China L. Colston & Cynthia Braggs) took the time to pose together on the set.
ENJOY & THANK YOU ALL FOR FOLLOWING!!!

Evelyn S. Oliver
owner
Sapphire Productions
http://www.ndtv.com/news/world/infidelity-marriage-commitment-in-your-genes-24934.php

Sextra: Physical vs. Emotional Cheating

Hey "Devotee" Fans!!! Well it seems the sexes share the same opinions about physical & emotional infidelity.   Click here to read couples opinions  - THANKS FOR FOLLOWING!!!
http://bossip.com/243165/sextra-physical-vs-emotional-cheating/

Sex Bomb -- Men Would Rather You Cheat Physically Than Emotionally

Hey "Devotee" Fans!!!  New study taken a Penn State has uncovered that men are more hurt when their girlfriend or wife has an emotional connection with another person.  So guys you don't care if you catch her in bed with another man?  Am I missing something?  What do you think?

Below along with the article, enjoy this still photo of actor E Talley II on the set of "The Testimony of a Devotee" playing the role of Jaylon - ENJOY!  THANKS OF FOLLOWING!
http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/04/27/sex-bomb-men-would-rather-you-cheat-physically-than-emotional/

10 Tools for Preventing Infidelity

Hello "Devotee" Fans!!!  Try these helpful 10 tips to prevent infidelity in your relationships!  Enjoy this still of Jewel Redhead, Zachary Redhead-Leconte and E Talley II on the last day of shooting - this cast had great chemistry!!!  Thanks for following. . .bye :)

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-fitness/201004/10-tools-preventing-infidelity

Infidelity affects Whole Family

Good afternoon "Devotee" Fans!!! I don't know about you but it is a beautiful day today!  But before you head out - checkout this link below.  It's an article by Shannon Lazovski who is writing about her dear friend who's marriage ended after her husband cheated.  And how her friend had to deal with it and move on with her life raising her three kids by herself.  How will this Infidelity effect her family?  The article also talks about kids born out of Infidelity.  Read and share your comments!


Below are some more still photos from my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" starring Jewel Redhead and introducing her son Zachary Redhead-Lecont as Isaiah in his first film - ENJOY!!!
http://apps.detnews.com/apps/blogs/momblog/index.php?blogid=1181

                              
 

Nothing Funny about Infidelity

Good morning "Devotee" Fans!!! Click on the link below by the "Daily Herald" on why Infidelity is wrong - what do you think?  Also, enjoy this beautiful still photo from my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" starring Jewel Redhead! Bye now. . .

http://www.dailyherald.com/story/?id=374800&src=

Buckbee: The nature of infidelity at Northwestern

Morning "Devotee" Fans!  Alana Buckbee, a collage student explains why students are effected by two things while attending school.  Cheating on a test & cheating on each other - while you can get expelled for cheating on anything in school. . .you can't for cheating on your mate!  View her Vimeo video, read her article and share your opinions.  Infidelity is everywhere!!!!
http://www.dailynorthwestern.com/buckbee-the-nature-of-infidelity-at-northwestern-1.2230700

Bird Detective uncovers seedy side of life Songbirds as likely to Cheat as Humans

 http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/796044--bird-detective-uncovers-seedy-side-of-life?bn=1

Funny pictures of the day – Cheaters

Good morning "Devotee" Fans!  How are all of you?  I'm doing great!  If you did not know already, I'm planning another screening for "The Testimony of a Devotee" while in the process of submitting the film to festivals!  Also, today is my birthday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME) and as I look back on things that I have accomplished.  I'm looking forward to all the new challenges ahead!!!


My treat for all of you today is this blog: http://www.funstuffdaily.com/2010/04/14/funny-pictures-of-the-day-cheaters/  Funny cheating pictures you don't want to miss!!!Below, enjoy this still photo from the set of my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" that premierSat, March 20th.  Actress Jewel Redhead in the photo - ENJOY!!!
Evelyn S. Oliver

Sapphire Productions

owner, film editor, producer, director

www.twitter.com/SapphireProduct

Darell Brown shares her views on Infidelity

"I think its always an issue when someone in a committed 
relationship develops an emotional bond with someone else.


I would say if it happens or if people or contemplating cheating 
they need to examine the state of their relationship first."


Darell Brown
"The Testimony of a Devotee"
Unit Production Manager

Here's also an interesting article by Police Life Contributor MICHELLE PERIN - very interesting!!!
http://www.officer.com/web/online/Police-Life/Feel-Like-Messing-Around/17$51715

Jewel Redhead speaks about "The Testimony of a Devotee"

Jewel, why do you think people should see this movie?

"Because this film is about real issues. . .that there is life after betrayal." 

Jewel Redhead-

actor

Top Cheating Songs of All Time – Musical Musings on Infidelity

Morning "Devotee" Fans! Came across this list of songs about Infidelity.  Take a look. . .you may find a few of your favorites!

 Below, enjoy this still photo from the set of my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" that premiere Sat, March 20th.  Actors Jewel Redhead and R.J  Seikaly in the photo - ENJOY!!!

Evelyn S. Oliver

Sapphire Productions

owner, film editor, producer, director

www.twitter.com/SapphireProduct

http://coolweather.dreamhosters.com/general/top-cheating-songs-of-all-time-musical-musings-on-infidelity.html

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater

IS A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER?  I THINK SO!!!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jag-carrao/once-a-cheater-always-a-c_b_525652.html

5 Signs Your Boyfriend May Be Cheating

Hey Guys!  Read these signs for finding out if your boyfriend is cheating!
http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/2010/04/5-signs-your-boyfriend-may-be-cheating/

Filmmaker Makes Her Directorial Debut

Hey Everyone! Me and my film "The Testimony of a Devotee" are featured in Pangeas Garden blog - CHECK IT OUT!!!

http://pangeasgarden.com/projectblog/pgp183-filmmaker-makes-her-directorial-debut/

Jesse James, Tiger Woods - Why do Women Stay With Men who Cheat?

Good Morning "Devotee" Fans!  How are you? Checkout this article I came across this morning by Laura Trice stating the 5 reasons why women stay with the men who cheat on them!  Did not agree with all of them but give it a read & tell me WHAT YOU THINK. . .LATER!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/laura-trice/5-reasons-women-stay-with_b_521936.html